Becky Reed
Personal ASSISTANT -
"SERVICE CONCIERGE" -
organization and harmony...
home readiness for better living



Communication is the essence of presentation of personal ethics...
Make a Difference - at this moment - where you are while looking "just beyond the river bend" with faith in hopeful expectation -
TAKE A RISK, TURN UP THE VOLUME!
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Services $10 per hour - - -

My Book.....My Life Experiences - learning about bipolar disorder after marriage and the rollercoaster ride...relationships exist with everything in this Universe...life has a grand purpose, even when the fairy tale ending does not materialize...
Publish Articles for Profit


Synopsis:

My personal search for meaningful relationships began with the quest for romance. Romance implied closeness or sharing, as well as intimacy. This closeness as in "true friendship" seemed to have priority over all other values when seeking the right romantic short- or long-term encounters. Humor is a necessary ingredient. Having recently acquired dentures, I am learning how to eat and speak all over again, so I certainly wouldn't have a clue about the logistics of a passionate kiss! Replacing one loss with another, I now have started to add girth to a once svelte and shapely form. Maybe that's just fine, too - who am I looking for, a 24-year old Adonis?

The 21st century multi-tiered and -taxed lifestyle has spawned a need to create a new paradigm for happiness and self-fulfillment - and perhaps a new format for romance. That seems like a big assignment and perhaps an impossible one. Yet nothing else in our lives has stood still, so why should we romantics be frozen in time?

Like many others seeking romance, the Internet turned out to be a virtual gold mine of untapped potential. Risk was everywhere, and so was adventure. Behind the veil of copious emails, one can voice hopes and dreams that might never be shared should we meet in person - especially if we perceive the "stakes are high" and we don't want to disappoint or be disappointed. We can be free with compassion, kindness, tenderness, and even hint at forthcoming passion, knowing the recipient doesn't need to be Mr. of Ms. Right. But just in case, we've got our bases covered.

Ayn Rand suggests that love and sex in a relationship that includes intimacy, are our response to our highest values. Let the sex be the spices and herbs; let it be tenderizing ingredients. But the "meat, vegetables, and potatoes" of a love relationship should be a deep and lasting friendship that consists of trust, honor, respect, lots of laughter and shared experiences of growth. As in the song, "there's more to us than surgeons can remove." Don't be afraid to turn up the volume.

Marriage did finally manifest itself. What happens to a woman's heart and soul when she discovers from the "honeymoon" forward that she was chosen for her kindness to be a caregiver, chauffeur, ATM outlet, and creature of choiceless abstinence? Bippolar issues and the new family's stresses....
BUT...WHAT'S THIS???? CHOICE!!!! When the safety nets of illusion and money have been eradicated, there is a dark night of the soul...and then, the rainbow.

Life is complex, but there is joyful rejuvenation. Can you hear the fade-out music coming from The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, "so long, so long, so long...and thanks for all the fish?" It's time to pick myself up, spray some antiseptic on the wounds, and look forward, maybe a bit more humbled, but with hope once again.

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In my experience with communication, I have found that people want to be "heard" even more than the desire for problem identification and practical resolution.


"A quick handshake with me"...
An avid Appreciator of thought Manifestations and Quantum Leaps
Marc Gafni's Soul Prints
"God loves a story...let us be the heroes of our own."
Gregg Braden's The Isaiah Effect
"We choose the conditions of our lives through our feelings."


Email: BeckyReed1952@hotmail.com

Develop Your Character - it becomes your destiny...
Learn: START, STOP, and CHANGE.


The universe seems only to wait until we are ready to say, "I am me" and "this life is my creation" to clear the slate for more abundance.
“I hear the human race is falling on its face, and hasn’t very far to go. But, every whippoorwill is selling me a bill and telling me it just ain’t so….I could say life is just a bowl of jello, and appear more intelligent and smart. But I’m stuck like a dope with a thing called hope – and I can’t get it out of my heart!” ~~~”South Pacific”~~~


Becky Reed/ 309 Washington Street/ Anaconda, Montana 59711
1-406-880-7833


Brief Resme
(1) Ten-Year Professional Experience Operating A Sole Proprietorship Residential and Small Office Cleaning Service - total preparation for comfort in the home - linens, laundry, pictures hung, cabinets stocked.
(2) Writing text - personal pieces, editing, biographies, book reviews, and research for website.
(3) Time Prioritizing and initiative - single parenthood/ DISPUTE RESOLUTION and evaluation of alternatives
(4) Eight year stint in minor league law enforcement

****EDUCATION****

•May Tech – Paralegal Course: law office management/procedures, briefs, accounting coursework, legal and medical terminology and transcription, typing I, II, III computer course work
•Glynco Law Enforcement Center: Orientation for Court Security Officers
•National Institute of Environmental Health Sciences: AALAS course work and work as GS listing - laboratory animal care


"Adversity reveals genius, prosperity conceals it."
~Horace~
SKILLS
• Management training - Law Enforcement background – EMT training/ 6 years, ability to observe, evaluate, and communicate/ self-employed – registered child care service NC and residential and small office cleaning service 10 years NC
• Writing and editing for website – book reviews, biographies Accuracy, time prioritizing, conscientious work approach, upbeat attitude, and willingness to learn



As Yoda in "Star Wars" said, "There is no try; DO!""

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Short published Writings as a way of introduction
My Background/ Personal Beliefs - To tell you about my character

Email: BeckyReed1952@hotmail.com

GREATNESS -- by C.E. Flynn --
"A man is as great as the dreams he dreams, as great as the love he bears; As great as the values he redeems, and the happiness he shares. A man is as great as the thoughts he thinks, as the worth he has attained; As the fountains at which his spirit drinks, and the insight he has gained.
A man is as great as the truth he speaks, as great as the help he gives, As great as the destiny he seeks, as great as the life he lives."


Quote:
"It's hard to love the questions when you live in a society obsessed with answers. A believer takes a great risk in affirming the questions and doubts of others because to be a good Christian is to have all the answers and to never admit you have any questions. Consequently, we have a lot of people living out a spirituality they can hardly claim to be their own. On the surface they look good. They can sing all the right hymns and say all the right prayers. They quote all the right verses and support all the appropriate groups. They have even overcome great tragedy and despair and give claim to a testimony of great victory. But deep within their being, they are torn apart by this 'spiritual schizophrenia.' They have doubts....But the Christian culture 'code of silence' has forced them on a journey of 'Jesus is the answer' without ever having been allowed to ask the questions." Scott Waggoner, (1993).

Abraham Quotes